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a brief rant.
2010-07-10 @ 11:13 p.m.
one of my very good internet friends posted this evening about how he and his girlfriend went out to dinner with some of their mutual friends, and they were playing some game together and he said something and she suddenly got all mad and made a comment like, "don't lie to me. i don't lie to you." and he's like huh? but they were all drunk and having a good time so he didn't think anything of it, so they went home together. all the rest of the night and the next day, she was giving him the silent treatment, not saying anything unless spoken to. finally he's like, "why are you upset?" and she gives him the old, "i'm not upset." so he took it a little longer but finally he kissed her and told her he loved her the next day because he couldn't take it anymore and was going back to his place and she just stood there like a rock. THEN, when he finally gets back to his place, she texts him like fuck you too, thanks for not caring, blah blah. now, what the fuck? just reading this makes me so mad i can't even stand it. when you behave this way as an adult (regarding the girl), it proves nothing more than the fact that you are childish, manipulative, and insecure. you can't just make up magical invisible unspoken rules that only you know about, then lash out at your mate because he or she broke them. news flash: usually when you're being an immature fucking moron and you're giving someone the silent treatment and they ask why you're upset? THEY DON'T KNOW. it's not like it's some kind of fun relationship game they're playing with you. when both of you are having a good time and suddenly you become sullen and refuse to speak for days, chances are the only person who knows the reason for this is YOU. chances are ALSO that it's probably some stupid hang-up that you have about something that makes no sense at all, but you want to make yourself feel better so you blame your partner for your insecurities. i mean, whatever. that's cool if that's what you're into. i just wanted to put it out there, for the record, how disgusted i am by this kind of person. sorry for all of the anger tonight. i guess it's a combination of loneliness and insomnia ... boy is with his son this weekend, it rained all day, and i feel like i accomplished nothing. but at least i can recognize my behavior!! |